u/C7Sneaky

Hey so I'm a 22 year old male who has been trying to find a girlfriend for the longest time who's never had one before, this may be a bit personal but I've had sex with 8 people and I've never really felt chemistry with any of them/what I thought was chemistry turns out to not be, most of the time after sex things just fizzle out, around 4 of these were one night stands the other 4 where girls i actually liked, It's really killing my self confidence. I just had a girl recently who I really liked but she said she could connect with me emotionally but there was missing that physical spark, I don't know if this is just cause I'm really inexperienced but it really hurt me and made me insecure. Is it just that I've not found the right person? It's really affecting my dating life I think as if the sex was good and there was chemistry I knew it would've worked. And since I'm getting older and never had a GF lowkey feel like my times running out lol.