u/C0V1Dsucks

I AM NOT OOP

Original Post:

My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years and married for a few. Our relationship has been really strained lately and I’ve also been dealing with a lot personally.

Another woman became involved in our lives in a way that was initially more open/complicated. I’ll own that I didn’t handle that situation well and have apologized for my part in how things unfolded. But over time, it became clear to me that I’m not okay with that kind of dynamic at all and things ended. We all know how throuples end, I know I know. Hindsight.

I told my husband that if we’re going to try to fix our marriage, there can’t be an ongoing relationship on his end with her.

He initially agreed, but then changed his mind. He says it’s “against his morals” to cut someone off who hasn’t done anything wrong to him, and he sees my request as controlling and an unfair ultimatum.

I’m not trying to control him—I’m saying what I need in order to stay and work on the relationship. I don’t feel like I can move forward while he’s still connected to someone he’s been emotionally and physically involved with.

This has caused a lot of arguments, and now we are on no contact for a while.

AITA for making this a non-negotiable if we’re going to try to fix our marriage?

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u/C0V1Dsucks — 12 days ago

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/catbongos/comments/1swgfcl/regarding_the_recent_trump_assassination_attempt/

r/catbongos Mod posts and stickies theory that latest Trump assassination attempt at Correspondents' Dinner was a false flag operation

The post in full:

Regarding the recent Trump "assassination attempt", I'd like to call your attention to a photo

EDIT: This post will get unstickied within 24hr you don't need to be dramatic about how politics in this cat sub is ruining your life. Someone requested cat tax which is fair, here's our top post of the year https://v.redd.it/9kxdovkx35ig1.

As supreme leader I can use this sub to post about whatever I want, which I'm going to do right now - I'd like to present this beautiful photo

https://imgur.com/a/1uudx3p

I don't know how much more obvious it can get that Trump knew about this beforehand, it's classic "dupers delight" that he's getting from seeing Melania's surprise. Thankfully he's a bit too senile to keep it together for the cameras.

EDIT: If that image link isn't working for you try this one

EDIT2: Yes my wording is extremely clickbait - no this is not a slam dunk - yes he could just be lagging behind reacting to Melania react to the crowd - yes this is conspiracy posting without solid evidence. There's still a lot of reason to question the legitimacy of this attempt, the bar for speculation is really low when it comes to Trump, and I liked the image so here we are :)

I came across in the comments section of r/political_revolution, thank you u/bioxkitty, hopefully this helps it spread a bit further

I've been not too active modding lately so sorry for the spam it takes me awhile to remove, will be more present. This post won't stay up too long like the other one

Reactions were... mixed.

>I love seeing cat subs standing against that cult. 🫶🏻. Fuck trump, fuck ICE, and fuck his cult.

>You are my hero

>Reddit is legitimately losing its collective minds and I'm having so much fun watching it

>Funny that this is the post that got this sub recommended to me. Love it. Joined. Keep up the good work.

>Thank you for iron spine, Supreme Leader! It is an inspiration to us all!

>This post helped me find this sub thank u so much :,)

>I am saturated so not clicking links or even reading this post but I do want to say FUCK TRUMP okay thanks love ya

>Everyday. I’m reminded more and more why this sub is my ppl.

>Not all Heroes wear capes, some are the Leader of catbongos

>I love this sub and I loved the message against ICE and MAGA. I was subscribed long before that message as I love them sweet kitty bongos.
But I'm sorry, Trump is a sundowning moron. That easily explains him not knowing WTF is going on. And one out of context pic isn't proof of anything.
Let's not become BlueAnon. >>(MOD) Yeah it's definitely not proof, my wording was very click-baity. The smirk could've just been at Melania's shocked expression from looking at the crowd and he hadn't realized what was going on yet.
There's so much else though that points to this being staged. This isn't pizzagate jumping at shadows type stuff, this administration is literally criminal conspiracy after criminal conspiracy. It's impossible to say it's completely unreasonable that this was staged. >>>No, I wouldn't say it's "unreasonable," but maybe you should wait for further evidence of something rather than posting a single still from a video like it's something.
I'm not someone who is against politics in a cat sub! But when you choose to break with the usual content, it should be for something really important. This really, really doesn't rise to the level of "calling out ICE, the murder of people by ICE, and the rise of fascism in the US facilitated by MAGA." >>>>(MOD) That's fair I just really, really liked the image 😅
It's spurred on seeing stuff like the random googling of the assassins name in Israel earlier in the day.
Mossad have been responsible for a lot of crazy shit even in the modern day, and Israel was very likely involved in the Epstein honeypot operation (Robert Maxwell's Mossad ties, former Israeli heads of state participating in child abuse and being close friends with Epstein, etc)

>Uhh.... is there a cat tax at least? >>(MOD) Fair point added to original post

>What does this have to do with smacking cats >>(MOD) Your supreme leader decrees it is acceptable content >>>The absolute leftist brain rot on Reddit is incredible. Trump is an idiot criminal but the mental illness on Reddit is out of control.
I guess that makes me a fAsCiSt. lol >>>>This dude is really calling himself supreme leader and rambling about conspiracies on a cat sub without a hint of irony. Unbelievable >>seriously, like i get it Trump sucks but omg i just want to see the funny cat

>Wait, what sub is this? I thought this sub was about cats. >>So many subs where people can post about American politics, and some people still think it’s a good idea to submit this to a cat sub cause why not lmao.

>I can't even forget the world with cute cats anymore!? 😭😭😭 >>(MOD) This post won't be up for too long, these are rare occurrences don't worry
>>IT'S YOUR DUTY TO GET UPSET WHEN YOU ARE TOLD TO GET UPSET. BE A HECKIN GOOD PERSON >>>I come here for cats not politics

>I wasn't surprised when Pics turned into Politics 2.
I wasn't surprised when Science turned into Politics 3.
I wasn't surprised when Technology turned into Politics 4.
I wasn't surprised when AdviceAnimals turned into Politics 5.
But Cat Bongos? Nothing is safe. Reddit is just purely politics. >>Welcome to the fucking shitshow, bud. We’re in some serious shit, and people are reacting. >>>Well, go react in one of the many subs to talk about politics then? Why would I come to a sub about smacking cat butts for political takes and conspiracy theories

>Even my “safe space” kitty subreddits are now polluted with Trump. Fuck this.

>How is this about cats?

>Never thought I'd need to mute a cat sub because of politics

>This shit is already plastered all over reddit. Fuck Trump, but it doesn't need to be posted in every sub. I come here for cat bongos, not for mods using the sub for whatever they feel like. See y'all >>Agreed >>>(MOD) Don't worry, the post will go down eventually and the rest of the content will stay cats. You're free to leave though

>I thought this was a subreddit about cats?

>I summited bongos upon my grandmas cat yesterday. I need to ask if she is okay with me taking pictures and uploading them.
In other news a draft dodger would not be calm unless he is drugged up. I bet at this moment high government officials are wondering if he would care if they actually got shot for his narrative.

>WHERE'S THE FUCKING CATS

>I didn't join a cat subreddit to see politics on it. Go post this in a political subreddit.

>Omg you are a fucking moron. How fucking dare you, he has suffered more assassination attempts than any president because of liberals who hate him , refuse to let him govern this country. [heavily downvoted] >>😂 go kiss the booboo on his ear.
>>Quiet, piggy.
>>🤫🐷
>>he can hardly govern his own affairs, let alone a country. He single-handedly divided america & lives in his own delusions, so quiet piggy

>What does this have to do with cats or bongos

>You’re unhinged lmao

>Please go to therapy

>There is legitimately something wrong with you.

>Supreme leader? What is that about?

>Touch grass

>the lonely cat lady epidemic must be studied

>Why the fuck is this in this sub. This is just annoying. Take it somewhere it belongs you schizo

>? In this sub?
Americans are insufferable.

>Politics in a cat sub bruh. Leaving this fuckass app

>Isn't this a cat sub? >>Cats lovers are allowed to hate Trump & all he stands for too! >>>Sure but why I am seeing it on a cat sub? >>>>Why not? The more places people are reminded of how effed up American politics are right now, the better.. If the person who started this sub & takes time out of their life to moderate it, wants to use it to spread awareness then that's their right 🤷

>Who ever knew cat bongos was a conspiracy sub. Do you have strong opinions on the moon landing and the flatness of our planet too?

>Ah yes, conspiracy theories, just what this sub needed. Never change reddit mods

>This is my favorite example of what most mods are like, thank you dude.

>Peak Reddit mod. Yikes.

>Oh great another non political sub going political w the mod loaded w tds breaks their own rules.
You are why reddit sux

>I purposely don't involve myself with political conversations and here we are. Tasteless.
Also the "not been too active modding" lately and then posts something like this, it just proves that the stigma around reddit mods rings true.

>This is so damn sad lmao. Reddit mods never beating the allegations >>(MOD) Concerned about the reddit mod allegations, less concerned about the Trump allegations right?

>“As supreme leader I can use this sub to post about whatever I want, which I'm going to do right now” While I personally support this cause in particular, saying the above is never ok and reeks of someone high on power. Good thing there are tons of other cat subreddits without dictators. >>Yeah tbh it's not the best precedent for a reddit mod to insist they can post whatever they want. Not to mention sticky it too...

>Step down as mod & delete your account.

>Reddit mods trying not to shove their politics (conspiracy theories) down everyone's throat challenge: IMPOSSIBLE (GONE SEXUAL ?!?!?!)

>Sigh...another subreddit I have to leave because a mod simply cannot help themselves from bringing politics into it.

>Everyone’s gotta love mods abusing their positions to amplify their voice more than a normal person could. A fucking subreddit for cats is floating conspiracy theories. Sad.

>Reddit mods earning their stereotypes

>Bad mod. This isn't about cats.

>confused as to what this has to do with cat bongos? >>Cat bongos are anti-fascist

>the bongos of war will not stop until our kingdom knows peace for all kitty owners :3

>Cats hate fascism >>They also hate ballrooms.
>>>unless its made for them.
>>News to me (my cats are the fascists)
>>>Cats hate when others do fascism. Clearly they are the supreme leader

>>Here is my catbongo who hates facism (he will bite their toes)

>>Things are bad enough even cats have to give a shit. This subs been on the news for taking a stance against fascism. I, for one, am proud to be here. Smackin cats and fightin fascists.

>Bongos against false flag operations

>Kaia peeking out to remind you that Trump is a convicted sexual assailant. A felon. A pedophile.

>Damn that’s crazy. Picture unrelated. >>Cute cat,
Pictur semi related (Pépito the cat)
>>>I need Pépito to provide an alibi >>>>He was at the biscuit factory working overtime!
>>>>He was inspecting rodents at my place

>Mia thinks most things in her life are a conspiracy

>Now I don’t know anything but if I THOUGHT I had a thought about something IN THEORY, my initial reaction to the clip was “…I know a false flag when I see one and this is really obvious” BUT AGAIN!! I don’t know much, only know cat ✨🥰

ETA: more cats

Also, the paper said "Viviane". The challenge was to figure out the name of Karoline Leavitt's unborn daughter. Oz Pearlman (the mentalist) did an interview.

u/C0V1Dsucks — 18 days ago

Already lost my hair, but now I'm losing my brows. They're thinning pretty rapidly starting at the tail end. I pretty much just have the thicker inside half left, with some awkward bald spots. It's getting to the point where I feel a little self-conscious about it.

I bought one of those micro blade (multi tip) eyebrow pens based on advice from a cancer support group. (Instead of, say, an eyebrow pencil or tinting brush.)

Full disclosure: I'm not a makeup wearer and I have NO IDEA what I'm doing.

Other than playing around and practicing on myself, can you give me some tips for a makeup dummy? An 'Idiots Guide to Eyebrows'?

Like...do I need to wax off the remaining uneven eyebrows? I seriously have no idea.

Are there certain youtube channels you would recommend?

Thanks!!!

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u/C0V1Dsucks — 18 days ago