TL;DR: Feeling abandoned by partner. He loves going to see his friends and being active in his hobby. Leaves every weekend, doesn’t invite me, if I am invited I don’t feel included. Am I expecting too much or do I need to break up?
I’ve been dating my partner for about a year and a half. Everything’s been fine up until the last 2 months. He’s been super busy with his hobby’s events and he already loves going out to be with friends or go to shows. My problem comes down to I feel like I’m only entertainment for when he’s actually home.
When he’s gone for an event or out for a night I basically get ghosted. He texts me random updates about what he’s done or what people have said about him (usually people hitting on him or calling him hot). But I feel like I’m not really interacted with as a person.
We have had a conversation about it, he claimed he didn’t realize, would try to be better. Nothing has changed.
When he stays in with me he’s very sweet. Asks me how my day was, interacts, we have conversations, makes me dinner, makes me coffee. So are my expectations off?