i HATEEE having big boobs
I’ve always had a larger chest, even since childhood, and it’s always been brought up by my friends and even people I don’t really know. Don’t get me wrong, I like compliments (who doesn’t?) but it gets super tiring and feels objectifying when it’s only ever about my chest or how my clothes make my chest look.
Most of my friends are also slimmer than me in general or have smaller boobs and will make comments like “are my boobs out?” in a way that seems like, if they were out (even just a little bit) it would be a problem or would be slutty?? I get they’re not talking about me but it sucks because they’ll also complain about having a small cup size?!
Also, online everyone seems to think that either a large chest is inherently slutty and ‘not chic’ like smaller/flat chests are or that it’s the best thing ever and no girl should ever complain. I genuinely saw a girl on TikTok post a video about how she never understood why large chests were the beauty standard when small chests are so ‘chic’ and ‘look so much better’ and other girls in the comments were agreeing saying larger chests are ugly! 😭
It’s also so so so hard to find clothes that fit me. My bust is like an 18 and my waist is a 12 (UK sizes)!! I usually have to compromise and get a 14/16 but even then - the bust doesn’t fit properly and I always have to wear tank tops underneath just to not flash everyone or have my bra showing and the rest hangs off me like bedsheets.
Just wanted to rant because whenever I’ve brought it up to friends they don’t really understand xxx