Uninvited guests for Easter Sunday, what do I do?
Help this is happening in real time 😭
I am a new homeowner (F25) and live with my parents and my brother (M15). We bought the house about 3 years ago. edit: I forgot to mention the reason I bring this is up is that we’ve know the guy before we had a house and used to live in an apartment and he never contacted us outside of business
Since my brother and I are grown, we don’t do anything for Easter Sunday, but this year my parents decided to invite my aunt over to our house since she’s the only one on my dads side with little kids.
Now here is the needed context for what we didn’t expect. We have a family business where we handle accounts and stuff for other businesses. One of them is a catering business and the owner has become close to my dad in the sense that when we have events, he’s the first person we contact him to help support his business and also his food is pretty good. From what I know he has one kid (about 10yrs old) Which I found out when he brought him to my cousins bday party at my house (the Kid isn’t the issue at all but that day was MESSY for different reasons the guy was involved in).
OKAY now back to the present moment. He called my dad a few days ago and asked what we were doing for Easter Sunday because his kid wants to come swim in our pool. My dad politely declined and said “we don’t know if we are going to do anything but I will let you know if anything comes up”. This morning my dad got a text from him asking what the plan is for today and my dad said oh well we are actually going to end up at my brothers house and doing a family gathering so I unfortunately won’t be home today. This guy texts back asking for my uncles house address basically inviting himself. My dad is freaking out because he’s to nice to say no and just decided he will leave the message alone for now.
Not even 15 minutes later this dude shows up to our door and my dad answered without checking who it was and awkwardly lets him in. How he got here so fast or what his plan was idk.. we live an hour away from each other. Keep in mind NOBODY is here yet my parents are all sweaty from working on the backyard and he just shows up uninvited. It is very uncomfortable and on top of that he showed up empty handed, like at least bring something??
edit: sorry forgot to mention bc it’s all happening so fast. When my dad let him in he panicked and said that we are moving the party to our house now?? Idk why he did that, he said he doesn’t want the guy to feel bad bc we were lying to him about the party. 🤦🏻♀️
Anyways my dad isn’t confrontational and tbh neither am I and I kind of feel like this dude is taking advantage of that. He makes all of us uncomfortable but we feel bad because it’s not the kids fault that his dad is the way he is, he is just a kid who was told by his dad that he was invited to come swim. What do I do? Has anyone else ever been cornered into a similar situation and if so how did you deal with it?