I know most posts on this subreddit are not serious but i have been thinking about this lately and wanted to get some perspective.
My social circle is pretty small, mostly close friends I’ve known since childhood and a few from school, all guys. My routine is straightforward: work during the day, gym in the evening, then back home. Because of that, I don’t really cross paths with many women in my everyday life, aside from coworkers.
I wouldn’t say I struggle socially or feel awkward around people, so I don’t think that’s the issue. It’s more about not having natural opportunities to meet someone.
I’m not in a rush to find a relationship right now since I’m still young, but it does make me wonder how things typically happen for someone in my position when the time comes.
Also, approaching strangers in public doesn’t really feel like the right move to me—it seems like it could easily come off the wrong way.
Curious to hear how others see this or what you’d suggest.