Hello everyone. I've seen some girlies post here and how they were received warmly made me want to post here.
I met a cool guy last year around September. We were good friends. I'll say it's the first time I've felt this connected to someone. He later on asked me out one evening, my stupid heart made me say yes lol. Big mistake. One day he stopped texting me. Not picking my calls. I saw the red flags but decided to ignore them...
I've had insecurities in the past which made me feel like I'm not worth a lot. Then I got abused too. My dad was never in the picture which kinda made a whole in chest. I don't really fit into the beauty standards haha.
Anyways I unfollowed him on Tiktok today. I was waiting for him to come back. I watched an edit about relationships, 'the art of listening'. It kinda flipped a switch in my brain. He never really listened to me. I have closed the window finally. I'll try to heal and show up everyday with a smile ;)).
Oh. He only texted me after I wished him happy birthday. That's 5 months of ghosting. He said "I'm going through a lot. Whatever prayers you're saying are keeping me".
By the way, Ghanaian jollof rice with chicken and black hot sauce