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My fiancée (21F) and I (21M) are having a rough time. Weve been dating for 5 years. I’ve been going on about talking about having more sex because I feel like it never happens anymore. I try to set the mood and I’ve tried talking to her about it. It makes me genuinely upset as to why she never wants to have sex anymore. I love her a lot and it’s not why I wanted to marry her, but honestly, with how it’s been, I can’t see myself being in a marriage with little to no sex. She’s one of the sweetest girls I’ve met, but sex makes me feel pleased especially when I get to please her. I’ve hit a wall. I don’t know what to do anymore. We have sex id say maybe twice a month, but closer to one. She always complains how she’s tired when I bring it up. She always avoids it. I feel as a 21 year old female, her hormones should also make her want sex. Anyone have some advice?