u/Busy-Move-6024

Can anyone suggest good colleges in northeast of India at an affordable rate for drop students.

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I share a room with this girl. It’s a single room, but we share a common area with two others, so there are four of us total. They all share a handwash and take turns contributing refills, but I have my own personal soap and I prefer using that.

Today, she brings the topic up in our **friend group**. She’s saying how it’s her turn to contribute and that she has to buy the refill because it’s empty. She explains the whole "turn-by-turn" process to the group and then pointedly adds, "M/N doesn't use it." Immediately, one of our friends says, "That’s very unhygienic."

I don't remember if I say anything right away, but maybe I mention that I use my own soap. She eventually adds, "Yes, yes, she uses her own soap," but before I speak, she just stays quiet and doesn't defend me. It feels like she is enjoying me being called unhygienic. She probably has a smile on her face because things are going exactly how she wants them to.

I assume she brings this up intentionally just to shame me. Maybe it’s because I’m not functioning the way she expects me to. Back in **the room**, she says it again: "But M/N doesn't use it." Why is she whining like she’s five? Then, one of the other roommates starts explaining the process to me, maybe thinking I don't know about it. But I just want to use my own stuff. Are my expressions making me look offended? Honestly, forget her—she just whines and blames everyone.

The one who calls me unhygienic must think I don't treat her well. Cause earlier that girl said that her mental health gets affected because we go to our room directly after attendance and that we are not like her old roomates they used to spend a lot of time with her play games and old. I was already friends with her and it was already three of moving in so I look like a bad person. But apart from that I didn't even bother her at all. What is wrong in that ?

That girl also accuses us for not getting some guy to get roommates also mine . And she does like I will never find love. I might have had a chance if it wasn't for them. And other stuff which she twisted. And later had the audacity to taunt me .Btvh

I am sharing a room with this girl. It is a single room but we shared a common room with 2 others. And we have common bathroom and a basin .So there were 4 of us. We used to share a handwash and contribute by turns keep it near the basin. One of the girls and I am friend with her outside of the room and had her own personal soap and she prefered using that.

One time I brought that thing up in our friend group by saying that it is my turn to contribute that thing. And I had to buy the refill cause it's over and I told my friends explained the process of us contributing the refill turn by turn and I added that "M/N dosen't use it"since shew was also there. And one of our friend said, "That's very unhygenic." I don't remember if she had said anything that day but maybe she said that I use my own soap and I added yes yes she uses her own soap.

But she might have thought that since I kept quiet and didn't say a thing before she defended herself that I was enjoying her being called unhygenic and that things are going the way I want it to.

She might have assumed that I brought that up intentionally just to shame her. I only wanted her to be included and share that thing with us.

When I noticed that for the first time that she doesn't uses it I said to one of my roomates that but that girl doesn't use it . And she explained the entire process to her. Maybe she didn't knew about it. I don't know if she like using it that way I mean keeping her personal stuff. It doesn't look nice . All of us are using and only she isn't. She did look offended that time when I said so.

And she doesn't even share her power bank or laptop or charger when we need it. So I would just say if I were her I would have let them use it right in front of her. And she is always cold and rude towards me. I just say some things for her good only and every one would agree with me. I have tolerated a lot from her. I have sometimes cried because she was so cold and rude.

Hey I recently moved to my room it's a private room but 4 people share a common area. I moved on the 3rd , it's the 6th of today already three days. We have an attendance system in the hostel, and my roommates go to their room directly after attendance which is affecting my mental health. My last roommates, we used to talk to each other till late night and we used to sing along and play truth and dare together. And I already know one of the girls we are friends with and she also does the same thing.

And when I brought this up to my friends when she asked how our roommates were she seemed offended. And one of them suggested I should meet up with one of my old roommates I was close with.

I wanted to know what the girl who got offended thinks of me.So, I told her that one of my friends was angry with me cause I don't talk to him much these days. And asked for her opinion on what I should do ?

She said it's my life and I have my own things to do and that I can be busy with my thing and can't always talk to them.

So I think that must be what she thinks of me as well. I think I have tolerated it enough.

I used to share a room with this girl. It was a single room but we shared a common room with 2 others. So there were 4 of us. We used to share a handwash and contribute by turns one of the girls and I was friend with her outside of the room and had her own personal soap and she prefered using that.

One time I brought that thing up in our friend group by saying that it is my turn to contribute that thing. And I had to buy the refill cause it's over and I told my friends explained the process of us contributing the refill turn by turn and I added that "M/N dosen't use it". And one of our friend said, "That's very unhygenic." I don't remember if she had said anything that day but maybe she said that I use my own soap and I added yes yes she uses her own soap.

But she might have thought that since I kept quiet and didn't say a thing before she defended herself that I was enjoying her being called unhygenic and that things are going the way I want it to.

She might have assumed that I brought that up intentionally just to shame her. I only wanted her to be included and share that thing with us.

When I noticed that for the first time that she doesn't uses it I said to one of my roomates that but that girl doesn't use it . And she explained the entire process to her. Maybe she didn't knew about it. I don't know if she like using it that way I mean keeping her personal stuff. It doesn't look nice . All of us are using and only she isn't. She did look offended that time when I said so.

Need an opinion on roommates

Hey I recently moved to my room it's a private room but 4 people share a common area. I moved on the 3rd , it's the 6th of today already three days. We have an attendance system in the hostel, and my roommates go to their room directly after attendance which is affecting my mental health. My last roommates, we used to talk to each other till late night and we used to sing along and play truth and dare together. And I already know one of the girls we are friends with and she also does the same thing.

And when I brought this up to my friends when she asked how our roommates were she seemed offended. And one of them suggested I should meet up with one of my old roommates I was close with.

I wanted to know what the girl who got offended thinks of me.So, I told her that one of my friends was angry with me cause I don't talk to him much these days. And asked for her opinion on what I should do ?

She said it's my life and I have my own things to do and that I can be busy with my thing and can't always talk to them.

So I think that must be what she thinks of me as well. I think I have tolerated it enough.