Dating advice/support ?
Hi, please be kind and gentle in your responses. I’m having a rough time as it is. I get anxious when dating in general especially having to be vulnerable and open up. I would say I am a late bloomer.
Have been seeing someone for about five dates over the span of two months. I was sick with flu for about two weeks hence skipping two weeks of dates.
Anyway, this is still kind of day. We’re taking things slow physically. We talk regularly on phone and text almost every day. On days that we don’t we send reels on IG and such. All this to give you some background.
We met on IG. I noticed his follower list has a couple of new girls since we started talking. His follower list is not generally all girls but I did notice these two new ones. It made me feel anxious and insecure. Should I even say something or will he think I’m insane ? I can’t help but think he’s still talking to others since that’s how he met me, sliding into DM.
In person and on phone he seems smitten and says the right things and presents the relationship as if we are exclusive. I don’t even know what I’m looking for here.