Destroying self confidence
I know this isn’t a shocking topic. But I’m trying to find a way to deal with Grindr (after newly downloading it) because I’ve never used it before and just got out of a looooong term relationship.
It actually seems as terrible as people have always said. Short of deleting the app how do you guys wrap your head around this all? I don’t have a ton of gay friends I can ask these things to so please be kind.
I don’t understand:
-I try to make conversation and people answer but don’t keep the convo going? I ask 3 questions and if they don’t ask anything back I let the convo die.
-Am I making too much conversation, should I just get to the point of trying to hook up? Idk how to start that convo without being awkward.
-Tapping and then not messaging me, or I’ll message them and then they won’t respond.
-looking at my profile several times, but not responding when I saw hello
Would love to hear some constructive input. Otherwise it’s just really dismantling my confidence lol. I know I’m a good looking guy but it makes me feel otherwise.