I need some advice...
Hey, folks! I've been struggling as of late. I've been engaged to a wonderful woman for going on 5 years now and she is ace. We had A LOT of sex when we first got together but then it just kind of disappeared. I've brought up a want to be more intimate and sexual to her multiple times over the years because I am a very sexual person. She was relieved at one point when I told her I could go outside of our relationship for that but it just felt like I was cheating because she didn't want to know the details or even what I was doing.
I brought it up a few months ago and told her I felt like I was missing a part of myself and that I want to live my life with her but really need to feel like I don't just kiss my roommate goodnight. Lol. I love her deeply and would do anything for her. She said she was going to look into female libido stimulants but...she looked it up once and then didn't again. I just need some advice from the ace community on what to do in a caring way.