I [21F] am having issues sleeping next to my boyfriend [21M]
We have been together for around two years. Happy…no issues. He has moved away as he’s a student and travel got super expensive it’s only an hours drive away now so we do still see each other just not as often as before. I work full time crazy hours I can be coming home at 2pm or 2am it’s a random schedule. I live with my parents still and do enjoy my downtime… he will insist to come to mine and see me and be waiting for me when I finish work even if it’s at 2am… recently and I mean within the last handful of months, he’s been setting alarms in the middle of the night to try and sleep with me.. not spoken about this before or set any boundaries about this, I wake up to him touching me and because I’ve been asleep and want to stay sleep I usually give him a kick or a punch and I can drift off again and don’t think much about it.. however now it’s every night, non negotiable every night… it makes me not want him round or to sleep with him at all. Because of this we haven’t been intimate for a similar amount of time… it just annoys me so much that he thinks he can do this every night after I’ve finished a 10 hour shift on my feet all day and I come home to him wanting one thing only… there is other issues in the relationship but I do think this is the root cause to them and none of them are like this it’s petty stuff between us but we are getting snappy with each other and it’s becoming a chore to be around him and keep him off me… now I just take any innocent cuddle or kiss as he’s trying it on and I push him off purely because of the night time routine he’s got himself into.. help what do I do or say..… I can’t bring myself to be intimate with him anymore my mind has put a block up.