My ex and I do not agree on where to live after the divorce and we share kids so we have to live close to each other. I have so recently woken up to the abuse and everything he has put me through I'm honestly so defeated and in no position to fight. But going along and moving to where he wants would also get me stuck somewhere I don't want to live. Has anyone gone through something similar? I trust in my ability to cope and do the best of the situation whatever happens however but with him I can only imagine him doing everything he can to punish me if he does not get his way. I feel completely blocked from thinking, just trying to deal with all the trauma from everything he has put me through. Any hope or experiences would be welcome.
He is not trying to isolate me, moving would bring us closer to both of our networks. It's just not where I want to live. We are about to go to mediation for this.