Where do i even start
Hey everyone, using a throwaway because this is all really new and honestly pretty intimidating for me. I recently got out of a very abusive relationship, and for the first time in a long while I finally have the freedom to explore who I actually want to be. One thing I’ve realized is that I want to try becoming more feminine/femboy-ish, but I genuinely have no idea where to start. A lot of guides and posts I find feel overwhelming because they seem aimed at people who already know the basics, so I was hoping for advice from actual people instead of just endlessly scrolling guides and getting anxious about it.
Right now I’m mainly looking for beginner advice on losing weight in a healthy way, exercises/workout routines, diets that are actually sustainable, grooming/self-care stuff, and eventually hair removal tips when I get to that point. I’m also pretty tall/bigger, so if anyone has clothing/style advice for that specifically I’d appreciate it a lot. For reference, I’m around 187 cm (6’2”) and around 115 kg (254 lbs). Since leaving the relationship I’ve already lost around 15 kg (33 lbs), so I’m trying to keep improving and actually take care of myself for once.
Also, are there any good communities/subreddits/Discord servers/etc. where people post progress on this kind of journey or support each other? I think having somewhere to share progress, get motivation, or just talk to people who understand would help a lot because right now I feel kind of lost on where to even begin. Any advice or things you wish you knew when starting would genuinely mean a lot. Thanks :)