Now what
Sooo….been dealing with husband (45) more or less full blown alcoholic for last 4-5 years. We have 2 boys(11,14). He claims reason for his addiction is due to me not being intimate (the way he thought it should be after having kids) for several years. But I’ve learned through therapy that he’s just making excuses at this point for his addiction. So trying to survive and live life for “me” and my kids.
Now, I’ve come to think that he’s now addicted to p*rn. I discovered because I’ve woken up several mornings in a row with him on his phone laying next to me and I can see what’s on the screen (im a light sleeper and I wake pretty much up with the “ping!” And my eyes are open without moving my body”).
I feel like I was doing ok in coping/dealing but now it feels like another dark cloud has covered things.
He’s too prideful to really admit things are spiraling and definitely some of it is the addiction. But I feel myself reaching an ultimatum that I don’t know and wouldn’t know how to deal.