I confronted my wife about posting a semi explicit video on a social media platform. She was promoting a product for hair trimming and was a little too provocative. Basically pulling her bathing suit up to show an area that wouldn’t be seen if she hadn’t have literally pulled the suit into her crotch. I told her it was too much and she immediately wanted to explain.
But I already knew what she would say. I literally called it. I told her there was no need to explain because we both know she’s wrong and she just needs to take the video down. I knew she would say something along the lines of “I did it to market and have more people interested”. I walked away but came back because she said I never let her explain.
I then told her what I knew she would say and asked if I was correct, she agreed and said yes. So I said so what do you need to explain?
She completely switched the problem to me making her feel bad and shut out because she didn’t get to explain herself. So I asked her for this understanding, “you feel shut out because I didn’t want to hear the explanation that I already knew you would use; which I proved and you agreed with?” She said YES. Through this all she was angry, raising her voice being very defensive. Then she DEMANDED to see my phone. I couldn’t do anything but laugh. All she had to do was delete the video but she instead got angry and started blaming me for things. She slept in the other room for a few nights, she’s back in bed tonight but not talking to me. What am I dealing with? Thank in advance