I'm (50nbm) in my solo-poly silver fox phase and while I've been working on my ability to charm & flirt IRL, I'm considering The Apps, after years and years of not using any. I hear Hinge is probably not right, but maybe Feeld, Pure, #Open? My type has generally been, bisexual nonmonogamous women who want to have sex 3+ times a week and like their men "seems gay but isn't."
Anyway I'm trying to figure out how to dial in a short profile to signal a lot of things without writing a manifesto. The overliteral no-mystery version might be "hot healthy intellectual stylish man who loves vanilla but has pleasure dom tendencies and wants connection because feelings are cool but isn't trying to trick you into a relationship suggests we actually go out and have a conversation rather than attempt to order you like a pizza and if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife you like you can keep them"
but
we want brief and mysterious and intriguing right? so what about
"Not sure I believe in sex without like. But I'm a slut-celebrating pleasure-oriented musician-scientist who wants to find out what you like, and do that to you. Looking for a reason to do something other than stay home working on trumpet fingerings. Is it you?"
is this anything?