I don’t really know what I’m asking but I want others opinions. I met this guy out at a bar we hit it off and he asked for my number walked me home and confirmed a date for that coming week.
As time went on he confirmed the date for that week again but when the day came he rescheduled- fine. Then the next time he also rescheduled due to a family conflict.
Ok whatever YES this should’ve just been where I let it go.
Weeks go by I don’t text him after his previous reschedule and he texts me late at night asking if I was out and that he wanted to see me- yes I see that as a booty call- I’m young (24f) and just played along for the bit.
I didn’t see him that night but the next day at 2pm he texted asking if I could meet him as he was in the area I lived. I said yes and met him at a bar and we had a great time. Date was a solid 3 hours and I invited him over after and we hooked up. Usually I get really attached to men after sleeping with them but I’ve been working a lot on myself and my emotional attachment to men and so I haven’t talked to him about the date or about sleeping together.
He’s currently away on a work trip now and we’ve texted twice just quick little funny things regarding what we talked about on our date. When he left my house after sleeping together he told me he’d see me when he got back. I definitely don’t like him to the point where I’d want to Date him- we disagree on my non-negotiables- but we did have fun and it was nice to have casual sex again.
I guess I’m just wondering how to keep this casual but still let him know I wanna see him again even if it’s just late at night.