Is looksmaxxing pointless?
Aside from a mediocre level of effort for hair/clothes/grooming/exercise?
I mean more hardcore stuff like getting down to 8% bodyfat, injecting stuff, really spending money on looks as a male...
The more I read this sub and look at real world situations the more I think the answer is NO, I have multiple friends of varying attractiveness levels in dead bedrooms and we're still in our 20s.
There's guys posting about 12 years of no sex on r/deadbedrooms who have post histories indicating they are 6'6, or ripped, and some literally on steroids to be jacked etc and it all seems to be not enough to save their sex life. I clicked on one guys profile and he had dozens of posts on dick subreddits with a legit enormous dick and was still getting no play from his wife, what a waste lol.
Seems like no amount of physical level-up stuff is going to help aside from getting easier hookups with mentally ill girls... seems like mostly gay guys are into all the physical male stuff.
I'm starting to think that marriage based on physical attraction is kind of stupid as a man because you're probably not going to be f*cking much anyway long-term. The better approach might just be to date purely on personality and forget about the idea of leveling yourself up into some kind of adonis ?