As the title suggest I need some guidance on how to separate and I know that I haven't been that long but I believe that I will not be a great fit for the Navy. I'll be clear with my symptoms I have trouble sleeping or sleeping too much to the point that my energy is down to the ground, feeling overwhelmed everyday like constant stress and pressure, and to much severe ones is suicide thoughts or harming oneself. I've been struggling to concentrate and focus on my training/work since bootcamp and it hasn't been great until to this point to my permanent duty station. I've talked to BH and they already assigned and had my first evaluation with my MTF provider and she said that they won't be separating me and would likely be stabalizing my symptoms that I should be put into therapy. I wanted to reject the idea but being not open to treatment means you're uncooperative and might less likely to separate you. I have said my statement and everything I had been completely truthful and honest but it seems she's like twisting the statement on me. I need help because this is getting nowhere I want to separate because I'm in no right condition to serve the Navy with danger to self and danger to my fellow shipmates. I showed her my diagnosis before and it was two diagnosis for the past 2 weeks which is Adjustment Disorder and Major Depressive Disorder. What do you think I should do and when do you think it will take to separate if I'm in that situation also I'm still in the Entry Level Separation but I think the provider is giving it enough time to just miss that time window. I don't know anymore and I've been stressing it out left and right to the point that it's been affecting my appetite and everything. Anything helps if you have advice but I don't like it when someone said to just "tough it out, finish your contract" or "this is what you signed out for". She been scaring me with her tactics like that too and said that the process is a tedious one and I'll take that risk just to get separated.
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So I just did my first appointment today and they'll be assigning me a MTF Provider and I just want to say how it will go from there? I'm also in the ELS period if that makes sense or makes any difference but I'm just asking how would it play out they say all that process could take up to a few weeks or months someone please help😞
As the title explains these past few weeks I've been dealing and struggling mentally and I've come to seek help in A School and as the diagnosis said I'm experiencing Adjustment Disorder and I've just came back from the ER that they diagnosed me again with Major Depressive Disorder. I know the consequences of separating and everything that revolves around that and my decision has never been this clearer but to separate and take care of my mental health outside the military life. What I am asking is that what would be the start process of getting the process started in that way I can sail smooth and transition back to my civilian life. Feel free to comment anything and every opinion matters whether it is negative or positive :).