Ok so my bf of about 5-6 months called me in the middle of the night saying he was exposing himself on omegle and came upon a girl that told him to add her on insta “for more”, he did, and then he got told if he didn’t send the person 200 or more dollars they’d send his videos/photos to all his following. he called me right when this happened and said “i’m sorry i fucked up”. i don’t know how to react. we had a talk in the morning where i told him i love him, but it’s over now. He’s incredibly depressed and im scared he’s going to act on it. i told him i want him to get help and maybe this relationship will still have a chance, and i think he might be open to it after initial breakup feelings die down.
i’m definitely going to give myself a while to heal, but would it even be possible or respectable if me to get back with him after time and growth? we love each other so much, but this seems like one of those things we can’t come back from. i’m already an insecure person, so knowing he did that, on omegle with multiple random girls absolutely kills me inside.
how do i move on from this? i’m absolutely heartbroken, i felt so sure this would work out and now im just confused if i should try to work this out over time, or do if i need to just get over it and try finding love elsewhere? where do i even find new people? im so lost.