the drama
for context i’m getting married in a month and my sister in law has been with her boyf for less than a year. he’s made a huge deal about getting a ring. they’ve been shopping and even picked out the ready ring together this week. and he has had ants in his pants ever since. he called us to tell us he’s planning a “dinner” this week - the week of both my bachelorette and my finances bachelor - you can only imagine the prep that will come with this week.. so the dinner will probably be their engagement announcement. am i absolutely insane for feeling kinda upset they chose to do this a month out of ours. with zero regard to our stress. and planning. can someone help me see this differently i just think it’s wild.. is it just me ?