u/Broad-Bridge-9293

Hi!! Im 19, and very very stupid. My family is p broke and i was being silly and despite knowing and having been through shit like this before (sending nudes, not the blackail), I joined an egirls server. This verified female (u have to take a vid and verify ur a legit female ig) dmed me and sent this guy's username saying that he spoils her. I added him, and he promised to pay me 90 for 'thirty min'. It went on for an hour, I got no pleasure out of it, and was just uncomfortable. I only showed my breasts, but did had shown my face and stuff. I asked to be done after an hour and asked to be paid but he said we werent done (seemingly wanting more even though before he accepted the fact that before i even agreed to the thirty min that i wouldnt show anything besides my breasts and thighs). I said whatever, and he asked a day later to continue. I told him as nicely as possible i wasnt comfortable with anymore, and gave him my cashapp if he wanted to pay. I promptly blocked him. Not even thrirty min later a girl dmed me (not the same girl), saying hes about to pay someone to doxx and leak me everywhere. I added him back and he said if i 'submit to him' till tmrw night he'd reverse it and not leak anything. Keep in mind he sent two photos of himself, hes rlly attractive, which is why i doubted it was him. I did reverse search img and nothing came up, but i cannot prove its actually him. I got my friends involved and tried to stall him before he sent any info to 'the said doxxers'. My friends told me to start asking him to prove he had any info on me. I privated all accounts and before even blocking him deleted anything i sent before (tho he still prolly saved em). My disc acc js has my spotify attached. He started asking for leg pics and js to stall him in case he sent anything i sent them cus i rlly didnt care abt that. My friend and I noticed he never sent anything proving he knew my info, was planning on sending anything, and even knew any doxxers. I talked back to the girl that recommended him and kinda assumed they worked together. She said she was blackmailed too and was forced to recommend him to someone else. Kinda knew it was prolly fake when she said she tried to talk to law enforcement but they 'knew someone in law enforcement so nothing happened' lol. And he 'talked to her mom'. After a while, the dude was getting mad i hadnt sent a 30s vid of me rubbing my legs so I js kept asking for proof and he never sent anything. He said he was gonna send the info to the doxxers now and said he knew someone named 'flar' who owned '764' whatever that means. After a while again, i js kept asking for proof, i went back to thr server to try to get the girl banned that recommended him. js an fyi, hes not in the server. opened a help ticket, nothing happened, which im not surprised. doubt any of the mods cared even tho theres over 130k members who could def be blackmailed like i was. I called his bluff and asked him as a joke to show me his balls. He didnt respond after an hour so i blocked him, the girl, and the other girl who told me my user was in a doxxers gc. he asked where i was from while we were first chatting and i said virginia (im not). Anyways, thats p much it. Im still very worried. The girl who told me my user was in a doxxers gc has had an acc sunce 2022, the guy 2025, and the girl who recommended him 2026. They still could obviously be working together, but i'm just worried and was wondering if anyone had any insights? My acc's on all social media are still privated, and i left the server. Ik this was a very dumb decision lol js needed some advice