u/BritneyNoSpears_1

Men, I need honest male perspective.

There’s this coworker I’ve had insane chemistry with since day one. Flirting, tension, lingering hugs, hand holding once, subtle touching, all that. He’s attentive, protective, masculine, respectful when I say no, and genuinely caring. I started catching feelings a little.

BUT recently he secretly took a photo of my camel toe while I was sitting down in leggings. He deleted it immediately when I asked and said he could tell I was uncomfortable, but he never actually apologized after.

My attraction dropped a bit after that because it crossed a boundary I didn’t expect him to cross. Still attracted to him though, unfortunately.

Question: was this just him getting too comfortable/flirty and being stupid, or is this a red flag about his character? Would a genuinely respectful man do something like that?