u/Brionesgmm

▲ 6 r/memorization+1 crossposts

The idea is extremely simple. You just memorize the order that colors appear. That is it. Sounds easy, right? That is what I thought too.

It would probably be easy if we were only talking about basic colors. Red, blue, green, yellow, purple, orange, and so on. Most people can create images for those pretty easily.

But once you start using different shades of colors, the difficulty jumps like crazy.

https://preview.redd.it/q8qc66l79lyg1.png?width=1917&format=png&auto=webp&s=77e91bd88f1426223e069bac23ebe29886c272cf

The hardest part is not just memorizing the colors. The hardest part is that the colors almost feel like they change depending on what they are next to.

During memorization, you might see four colors together and your brain judges each color based on the colors around it. One color might look dark because it is next to a lighter color. Another might look bright because it is next to a duller one.

Then recall starts. Now all the colors are mixed into a color bank, sitting next to completely different colors. And suddenly the color you thought you memorized does not look the same anymore.

That is what makes this event so crazy to me! I promise the similar colors are different. i used some math to make sure there is a visual difference between the colors.

https://preview.redd.it/gjc0u5ja9lyg1.png?width=1915&format=png&auto=webp&s=09aaf7a78c03abb50b15d364b75999b170161a5a

The information is technically the same, but your perception of it changes because the surrounding colors changed.

I have memorized abstract images, cow patterns, books, keys that go to doors, and plenty of other weird information. But colors might honestly be the hardest information I have ever tried to memorize.

With most memory events, even if the information is abstract, the target still feels stable. An image is an image. A word is a word. A number is a number. With this, the color can feel different between memorization and recall even though it is the exact same color.

If I only memorize a few colors at a time, I do not know how those shades compare to all the other shades in the trial. I might call one color “dark blue,” but later realize there were three other blues that were darker, lighter, or just slightly different.

But if I try to study all the colors first, that also does not fully solve it, because once recall comes, the colors are mixed up and sitting next to different colors anyway. So now I am trying to figure out how to create a reliable system for something that changes based on context.

With a small amount of colors, I can kind of brute force it. I can make images for the colors: light blue, dark green, pale pink, burnt orange, and so on. But once the amount gets higher, everything starts breaking down. The comparisons get confusing. And suddenly I am questioning colors I was confident about during memorization.

Try this event out and let me know what you think:
https://blitzmemory.com/app/event/colors/standard

Let me know what strategy you come up with, because this might genuinely be the hardest memory event I have ever created! I want to know how to beat this event haha

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u/Brionesgmm — 13 days ago
▲ 44 r/pcgames+1 crossposts

I’ve been playing games with her since she was about 4, and right now our main games are Minecraft, Bloons TD 6, a bit of Lego Star Wars, and unfortunately, Roblox.

To be fair, Roblox has helped her with one thing: learning that dying in a game is not the end of the world. You lose, reset, and try again. That was actually a big step for her.

For example, she normally plays Minecraft in creative mode. One time she accidentally ended up in survival, got eaten by a dinosaur from one of our mods, and started crying. But since playing more Roblox-style games where dying and restarting is normal, she has actually asked a few times to play Minecraft survival and fight mobs. So that part has been good progress.

But overall, I really want to get her away from Roblox.

A lot of the games feel like they are full of ads, popups, waiting around, grinding for money or strength or experience, and just sitting there until something happens. There are also the bigger safety concerns with Roblox in general. She never plays by herself, and when she does play, it is always with me or my wife. We also keep chat disabled. But even with that, I would rather find better games for us to play together.

What I’m really looking for are games that help her slowly expand what she understands games can be.

With Bloons TD 6, she does not really understand the strategy yet. She mostly likes placing monkeys and randomly upgrading them, which is totally fine. I’m not expecting a 6-year-old to min-max tower placement. But I would like games that gently introduce more ideas than just jumping, clicking, waiting, or collecting currency.

Minecraft has been great because she loves building, exploring, spawning animals, making houses, and just being creative. I’d love more games that let her do that kind of thing while also slowly teaching teamwork, problem solving, light mechanics, and maybe a little bit of challenge without being too punishing.

I’m not really looking for Mario Kart, Mario Party, or Smash Bros-type games. She does not like feeling targeted, and those games naturally involve getting hit, attacked, or beaten by other players or CPUs. I’m looking more for cooperative games where we are working together instead of constantly fighting each other.

I’d love suggestions for games that are:

Good for a 6-year-old
Playable with a parent
Co-op or multiplayer
Not too punishing or overwhelming
Creative, cozy, adventurous, funny, or lightly challenging
Good for teaching basic game mechanics over time
Better than Roblox-style grinding and popups

I’m not trying to throw her into StarCraft or anything crazy. I just want to slowly show her more of what gaming can be, so as she gets older we can hopefully play all kinds of games together.

At the end of the day, I just want games I can play with my daughter so we can have fun, create memories, and share gaming together.

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u/Brionesgmm — 18 days ago