u/Brilliant_Dust_3167

l've been in a LDR for about 3 and a half months now, and every thing was sparks and fireworks the first 3 months. We would spend hours on facetime, texting all day. There was so much romance involved and I really felt like I finally found the one I wanted to be with. I honestly have never clicked with someone in the way we did. We were planning a life together. Over the last 2 weeks however there has been a drastic change. They don't answer the phone with the same enthusiasm, I have to completely carry the conversation now and they just don't generally seem interested in speaking to me.
Texts have produced similar results, although they are a bit more romantic in tone. To add a bit more context, a few days ago we had a conversation about sex in which they revealed that they are celibate and waiting until marriage. I am not. I didn't want to let that deter from how strongly I felt about them because it's not the most important thing in the world but it is important. Idk if it's
subconsciously influencing some of my decisions as well. I honestly wanted to give it more time to resolve itself and not think too deep but we are meeting for the first time in 3 weeks. I still really like them, I just don't know if i'm overthinking and this is just a lull, or indicative of something more serious.