u/Brilliant_Chance_803

I’m 4 inches when hard. I feel like I have to bottom just out of convenience and embarrassment. I’ve never topped and get self conscious when other people try to give me a BJ. This self consciousness has made it so that I’m hooking up with much older men because I feel like even if they make fun of me, at least I didn’t really like them anyways so it’s less emotionally painful?

I’m also at the stage where the prep associated with bottoming is tiresome that I’m now more of a side…

What’s other people’s sex life like in the gay scene when you’re not packing as much? Are those penis extension wearables good? Are we just forced to be bottoms/sides?