Hey I (27M) just wanted to post this for some advice. Originally I'm from Pennsylvania. About 2 years ago, my parents retired and decided to move down to Florida. I was in between jobs and enjoy being close to my family so I decided to move with them.
Currently, I really dislike the area (Southwest FL) I am in. It is a big retirement community. I had a job for a bit in the area but decided to resign. It is depressing being the only person in your 20s in the area. I feel like I am missing out on everything.
I really miss my hometown and the relationships I had there because I had a great childhood. I also went to college near where I grew up which was also a great experience.
Now, in Florida, I feel cut off from all of the connections I made and built over the years.
I am debating moving back to my hometown but also looking at the major cities in Florida. Tampa, Orlando, and Miami seem appealing but the cost of living is absurd.
I would like to be near my aging parents and help take care of them and spend time together but absolutely despise the area I am in right now. I also would love to have a family in the future and give my kids the same kind of childhood I had growing up.
Any advice? Tips? Should I move back north or try to find a new way in a new city? Is it worth it to move back to your hometown if family is no longer there?