AITA for exploding at my girlfriend (who I support 100%) because she spends her entire break laying in bed on TikTok?
I (36M) live with my girlfriend (24F) and I cover all of her financial needs, including her university tuition, gas, and personal expenses. I specifically asked her to stop working so she could focus entirely on her studies, and I genuinely don’t mind providing for her. However, she is currently on vacation, and I’m becoming increasingly frustrated because she spends all day in bed scrolling through TikTok. She wakes up at noon or later, using the excuse that she’s "on break" while I’m out working. Today, I came home for lunch at noon and found her still asleep, so I woke her up by speaking loudly and firmly. This escalated into an argument where I told her how frustrated I am that I’m "breaking my back" working all day while she does absolutely nothing. I have asked her several times before yo just be active, gi out with friends, go shopping, go to the park IDK, do something besides laying in bed all day scrolling, because I dont feel like a team anymore. I know the way I woke her up and the way I said it wasn't the best, and I genuinely felt bad for hurting her. I apologized sincerely three different times. Her response, however, was to tell me she doesn't want to talk to me and that she is already looking for a place to move out. I told her that I don’t want to lose her and that I want to fix things, but I also made it clear that if she wants to leave, I won’t stop her or beg her to stay. She has been giving me the silent treatment for over seven hours now and locked herself in another room. All I want is for her to be active during the day—even if it's just going out with friends—instead of wasting away in bed. Am I the asshole for losing my patience and waking her up like that given the context, or is she being immature?