u/Brilliant-Feeling-15

location: New York

basically, our offer was accepted. while going through the contract with our lawyer, it came up that’s we’d lose the deposit due upon signing (50k) entirely if we signed the contract and our mortgage is approved and then later denied due to job loss or any other reason.

we don’t really think there’s a huge chance it could happen, but his job has laid off/fired 4 people recently (he doesn’t really have all the details, but he believes there was some misconduct, however they were never replaced so that points to a lay off maybe?)

he‘s one of the most trustworthy/desired workers, and management, but he still thinks there’s a small chance, because there’s talk of closing one of the three warehouses in the company, and he works at the smaller one.

it sucks cause it’s all just a what if. it could all be completely fine and we don’t sign the contract and lose this house because of a what if. but if we do we lose 50k. I guess my question is, how often to sellers ACTUALLY keep the whole deposit if something like this happens? isn’t it a massive problem for them if we have to sue them for it? aren’t they more likely to just cut their losses and put the house back on market and not deal with a lawsuit?

I feel like my lawyer has to just say worst case scenario to protect herself, but idk. just looking for a second opinion.

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u/Brilliant-Feeling-15 — 9 days ago

I can’t even begin to write down everything that’s happened to me in the last year, but I’m at the point where I feel absolutely insane. I think I’ve been manipulated but I think I might just be crazy. This person outwardly appears to be the kindest most admirable person in the WORLD but I have witnessed crazy hurtful behavior privately and I’ve also been told by someone in the close inner circle that they have a “alter ego/multiple personalities” that only comes out when they’re with guys friends. when I tell you no one would even beleive me if I told them and I would look like the crazy person and I start to actually question myself and ask myself if any of this real? Did I make this all up? I’ve only met one person EVER who has criticized their behavior and everyone else in the world worships them and it’s scary.

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u/Brilliant-Feeling-15 — 16 days ago