my boyfriend is falling out of love with me and it hurts
it’s been nearly two years since we started seeing each other, 2 months ago he moved away to a different country for work and it’s roughly an 8 hour time difference for us
We text every day, he doesn’t call, I am always the one calling. We stopped saying I love you to each other and it’s been feeling like we’ve been making the bare minimum small talk like how was your day, what did you get up to.
I’ve been trying so hard to keep this relationship alive throughout the two months I would be the one texting him every day, sending photos of what I’ve been up to, every weekend I’d initiate the calls.
Sometimes he will make the effort but most times he’s just been really dry. We almost broke up a month ago over the phone.
We were never previously like this, in our first year together he would be messaging me constantly and he would always be around to facetime, he used to always say I love you.
Right before he left we would get into constant fights about him moving away, as I didn’t want him to go but I understood it was the best for him career wise. He started pulling away right before he left, he didn’t plan anything for Valentine’s Day (I did) and he overslept on the day.
I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to break up with him as it was so so good when we were together for our first year and right before he left, but I am constantly left feeling unloved and unwanted and wondering *when* he will finally say he wants to break up. I know he is falling out of love with me and it really hurts