I've been feeling hurt cause the other day, 30M said he'd come home early to hang out with me. I ended up falling asleep waiting for him, but I never got a text or anything. He comes home at 8, and we pretty much just go to bed at that point. He tells me the next morning he actually went and hung out with a friend instead of coming home to hang with me like he said he would. Jump to today, he tells me he wants to go see a movie with the same person he cancled on me with the other day. He wants to cancel our plans we had made cause he says he's just not in the mood now. I explained that I felt hurt cause I felt like he's canceling on me twice now to hang out with said person. And he says he's not sure if he has the energy to go and do what our plans were. And that the movie will be out of theaters by the weekend is why he wants to go. And I told him it was fine with me. I'm not gonna make him do something he's not in the mood for. And we sat silent for a bit, so I told him I was hopping off the phone. And he said he wants to talk about how I'm feeling about it all still later. And I don't know what else to say to him cause I've explained my feelings are hurt and that i feel like he's choosing said person over me and it's now happening twice in less then a week. So what else can I say to help him understand, I guess?Cause I don't know how much blunter I can be. He is Autistic also.
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u/Bright_Intention2373 — 7 days ago