u/Bright_Blackberry_67

Like what happened? I mean prior to the car accident she was so in love w chuck. And she was up until the wedding. I even recall her literally saying she felt dead inside w out chuck the ep before the wedding (during the pact to god stuff).

But then after she wants dan. And then 6 eps after leaves dan for chuck.

Not a dair or chair hater btw this genuinely just confuses me😭😭.

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There are so many instances of this being shown in the earlier seasons. Starting w blairs competing and jealousy but i am baffled at blair dating dan. Because she started dating dan right after serena told him she loves him.

I dont understand why no one discusses that but everyone focuses on what happened between nate and serena in high school. And btw i will never listen to people who constantly bring it up because it was very apparent that serena felt so guilty.

When blair started dating dan right after ceces funeral also knowing how serena felt. Whats even worse is that blair was in the middle of a marriage and a whole other situation w chuck of course. It’s just so insane because as viewers we can only imagine and also remember how blair would act about other girls being w chuck such as jenny, eva and sort of raina (her refusal to believe they were serious).

And blair didnt even love dan the whole time so serena was right. She was leaving them alone until she realised that blair was not in love w dan and still wanted chuck. The way she acted was obviously insane by taping dan but in s6 when she explained she “never got over how hurt she was about blair dating dan”, I honestly understood her!!!

Okay i dont even know where to begin but this whole season is a disaster.

Starting w blairs being engaged i hated the whole plot and everything to w the royal aspect of it all. Putting this aside blair was a complete mess throughout her entire engagement. Chuck (despite all his flaws) was honestly doing right by her. He let her go willing at the end of season 4 and persistently supported her and louis. She was the one constantly running back to him and it honestly pissed me off because i thought she deserved better! I dont blame louis for all his insecurities.

But then even more insanity came after because of blairs pact w god. I genuinely could not even w that plot, I could not understand it. And i hope i am not alone in that. Frankly, it was apparent that blair was struggling mentally and needed professional help. I actually really grew to dislike dan in season 5. As a felt like due to his feelings for blair he was keeping her very much isolated when she needed serena and her fiance. And also unrelated but marrying another man bc u believe it is the only way to keep the man u love alive is insane. I understand louis crashout!!😭

After the pact w god the wedding unfortunately goes on and obviously ends catastrophically due to Blairs love for CHUCK. Also bc of dan leaking that video to gg and even worse blaming chuck/serena. Then dan ices out serena which is again an attempt to keep blair close to him and saves her from the wedding.

Then flashforward to after blairs honemoon and all of a sudden she chooses DAN? I felt the buildup for a relationship between them on the show BUT where it was placed makes zero sense. I would have understood blair running away w dan while she was pregnant (instead of chuck). But my mind genuinely could not comprehend this. Like blair wants to leave louis asks chuck to take her back while pregnant and says she will never leave him, then they get in a car wreck and whilst she is devastated thinking she lost him she makes the pact, then she goes through w the wedding soley to save chuck, and then drops chuck for dan. Like the whole reason the wedding (which was the central plot) imploded was bc of blairs love for chuck.

If someone can explain this I would actually appreciate it bc wth😭. And even worse dair dates for like 6 episodes and then breaks up bc blair loves chuck. And this in turn ruins their friendship which i loved. And then the season ends w blair going back to chuck. And blair is love w him in season 6 and hates dan. It was just a mess. And honestly they could have done sm more w blair this season. I enjoyed watching her at nyu more than this complete and utter mess of a season. And in the end i was okay w chair endgame bc blair destroyed every other relationship she had for him (chuck). And didnt let him let go for good.

I would also like to add imo i think dair relationship would have worked much better if louis never existed. Bc i saw the potential in season 4. And also that I honestly understood serena despite the insanity of leaking blairs diary (which i didnt support obvi). Bc blair was w dan bc she was apparently afraid when serena felt that dan is the love of her life. And unrelated but writing this reminded me of how disgusting blair was to jenny after the whole thing w chuck. And honestly i think i dislike every character on this show😭.

Also another thing i would like to ask is why does blair even love chuck when it’s apparent and tbh valid that she thinks the worst of him. Like when she attacked him for paying her dowry and did not offer help when he came to her about Elizabeth.

Tldr; Can someone explain Blair choosing dan after her honeymoon. Considering she confessed her love for chuck at her wedding?