AITA for feeling this way when my wife was talking to her exes while I was working night shift
A few years ago, I 44 male caught my wife 45 female calling and texting other men. I became suspicious when she would close her phone real quick and put her phone upside down after receiving messages. Not my proudest moment but I looked at her call and text history and discovered that she had been calling and texting multiple ex boyfriends. I confronted her about and we had a huge argument that night and she left for a few hours and came back home. We talked that night and she promised that she didn’t sleep with anyone and it was just conversations. I have had doubts ever since that night but when I try to talk about it she just gets mad and says it’s in the past. I just feel like the trust hasn’t been repaired and this really bothers me. I’m not sure how to regain the trust if she doesn’t want to talk with me about it. Is this something I should just let go, or are my feelings valid. I’m not sure I can really let this go without some questions being answered. If I’m way off base please let me know.