Message not even read!!
I met someone at work and we saw each other every other saturday and the chemistry was great, like we'd lose track of time yapping to each other. They were gonna be unable to come in to work anymore so got my social media from me and they texted first. We spoke everyday for 3 weeks and everything was great, we spoke about all sorts, they got drunk and sent voicenotes singing to me ya know everything seemed fine.
Then, i had plans to go out with my friends and asked if they wanted to come with us or maybe just do something together. They wanted to come and meet my friends, said 'of course' to coming and asked questions like where, what time is everything etc. And then we spoke for a while in normal coversation. The next day i sent a message like 'we will probably all meet up at this time', they replied the next day (the day of the plans) to say it wouldn't work out with buses and gave times they'd be free and also said the'd love to come next time. I reply and dont hear from them for three days.
At work, it turned out some of the people were confused and thought the person ghosting me was still meant to be coming in. As the only person with a contact that wasn't email I messaged to let them know. They replied to that and then I replied and I have been ghosted since. Why? I thought we had such a good connection and they asked for my socials so why have they now ghosted? It has been nearly 2 weeks and they aren't even active, I know they have a 2nd account I don't follow and I assume they are using that but why put so much effort into avoiding me? I really wanna triple text for some clarity lololol