Hi everyone, I’m a 21-year-old male and I’m in a really confusing situation. There’s a 33-year-old woman in my extended family, and over time there’s been some mutual attraction between us. Things have crossed normal boundaries a bit (like kissing and physical closeness), but whenever it comes to going further, she stops and says it’s not right.
Now I’m stuck because I don’t understand what she actually wants. On one hand, she allows some level of intimacy, but on the other hand, she clearly draws a line and doesn’t want things to go further.
I’m also starting to feel confused about whether I should even continue this at all. I don’t want to create problems in the family or regret something later, but at the same time, the situation is emotionally and physically complicated for me.