My child understands no,why doesn’t my SIL
I’m pregnant for the 4th the 3rd ended in miscarriage. While the blood result came back fine fore baby,most days I’m on bedrest for body pain and I’m type 2 diabetic as well so along with nausea and vomiting my sugar tends to drop at least once a day and some days more than once. I’m also easily stressed out and have anxiety . But of course to my SIL who loves to spend other people’s money is wanting us to have a baby shower, I firmly said no.My adult niece interjects saying well than we have a surprise again I reiterate,no and if so I won’t show up. Not once did they asked why or cared too so far ,they do know I didn’t take their kids to the zoo because I’m having painful pelvic aches. Anyways I look across the room and SIL is literally shaking her head across as if I’m one of her kids . I didn’t make scene cause it was SIL daughter’s bday. I ran out after singing hbd back home because I needed to vomit so I didn’t go back (we live next door).Also quite frankly I rather spend my money on the baby rather than watch everyone get drunk and having to be a hostess besides this is my 4th pregnancy,I’d be more receptive to a small get together like a sprinkle. Why the pushback ,no is an easy understandable answer.Anyways sorry for the long rant,maybe I’m being sensitive,but I just needed to get this out my mind but most likely I’ll think about it all night and won’t get good sleep.