u/Brees_skidmark

For some quick context: my best friend recently got out of a really messy relationship with a guy who treated her like shit. I’ve been very supportive of her even when she was staying with him against her parents and other friends advice. I’ve tried to get her better jobs when she said she was looking for new ones even a great opportunity working for my mom and she never goes through with anything I try to help with. Even when she lies straight to my face about things that don’t matter like for example she canceled plans because her friend had a “medical emergency” our other friend said that wasn’t true at all they were just all hanging out but I didn’t mind bc I’m like okay maybe she feels bad canceling?
During this time she did things that really upset me for example she called me crying saying she got kicked out of her parents house and couldn’t go to her ex’s so she was going to have to sleep in her car. I told her she is more than welcome to come stay with me as long as she needs even re arrange my room for her to fit a bed and her stuff in my soon she agreed and said she’d be over later that night. I stayed up until 1AM waiting for her to show up texting and calling her until I fell asleep I was so worried she was going to sleep in her car and be alone that night she never responded until the next day saying she stayed with her ex.
This isn’t the first or last time she has done something like this where she says she needs somewhere to stay or just makes plans to hangout and never texts or calls to cancel especially if she makes plans that she deems more fun than ours.
Now for the recent occurrence I got into a really bad car accident and needed a ride to work. She works 14 mins from my job and offered to drive me if I slept at her house so I brought everything there and stayed the night. The next day she invited her new friend to come over which was fine. We ended up getting along and having a good night. Later that night her new friend started drama saying I said to her that my best friend was using new guy she was talking to (which I never said mind you I haven’t been in this stupid he said she said drama in at least 2 years because I don’t surround myself with friends like this). Now they’re all in a friend group so ofc the drama spreads like wildfire. Since I was sleeping at her house we talked about it and she knew I would never say anything like that even the other friends in the group said the new friend is a pathological liar. The next morning otw to work my best friend was going on and on about how she hates this girl now and never wants to speak to her again for trying to ruin our friendship and her new talking stage with this guy. We had plans for the following night for her to come to my house around 9pm get ready and go out together. Then the next day she told me the new girl wanted to talk, she said they did and it went really good I said “that’s good what did she say?” She never responded I figured she’d respond later on for us to go out so I wait (I even bought new jeans to go out that night). 9PM comes and goes nothing no text no call and I figured okay she made plans with the other girl fine I was really butt hurt but I needed my stuff for work so I texted her mom if I could come over and get it she said of course so I went grabbed my stuff and went home figured she’d text me in the morning or something but she hasn’t texted me this happened Saturday it’s now Monday and I know it’s not a long time but I’m really upset about the way she’s been treating me as a friend because I try so hard to do everything I can to help her in anyway always and this was my last straw but yes of course I kinda wanted her to text me like “you got your stuff?” But nothing like she didn’t even care and she’s so focused on this new friend idk I may be the asshole but I’m just really tired of the way she’s been treating me but still hurt because I do have so much fun with her. Let me know what you guys think should I just double text her or maybe tell her how I been feeling or just leave it as it is anything’s helpful.