Nonchalant Cancer got jealous after I was honest about dating
I (Aquarius Sun, Leo Moon, Cancer Rising) have been dating a Cancer sun, Taurus moon (rising unknown) man for about 2ish months now. The first 6 weeks were great… then I noticed his interest in me start to wane a little. He could go a few days without texting me. Calls stopped. Didn’t plan a date for 2 weeks. I liked him, but I assumed he wasn’t interested anymore and started moving on.
This past week though, our communication got better again. He started calling me more and making date plans.
Last night we were on the phone for hours when he randomly asked if I am dating anyone else. I said yes.
Dude.. it’s like a switch completely flipped and he went into full interrogation mode.
“Are you guys having sex?”
“Do you like him more than me?”
“How many dates?”
“Is this why we didn’t have sex last time?”
“Are you seeing this person this weekend?”
He got really quiet afterward and when I asked if he was upset he said “Yeah. Why wouldn’t I be? I guess you aren’t fiercely loyal.”
In the very beginning we both said we weren’t seeing other people, but since then we never had an exclusivity talk. If anything, his behavior over time made me think he was losing interest.
What’s throwing me off is that this reaction does NOT match the super nonchalant/cool guy persona he’s been giving lately 💀. He sounded genuinely jealous and hurt. But I mean… what did he expect? Hot & cold behavior turns me off and makes me detach.
Never dated a Cancer man before. I’m genuinely confused lol.