My gf [23f]doesn’t want to have sex with me [23m]and I’m not sure what to do
I,a a —[23m in]a skinny 23-year-old Guatemalan ((23m) with a below-average 4.5-inch penis. I’ve been dating my 23-year-old (Portuguese girlfriend for about a year and a half. She’s super curvy with a very big, round, voluptuous ass and body — exactly my type. At the beginning, the sex was amazing and frequent. Now it’s been a month and a half with zero sex, and I’m losing my mind.
She used to initiate, but now when I try anything she just says she’s not in the mood or pushes me away. We’ve barely even kissed lately. I’m starting to think she’s not attracted to me anymore — maybe my size is the problem, or the fact that I’m skinny next to her thick figure. The insecurity is killing me.
I tried bringing it up once and she just got quiet and changed the subject. I don’t know if it’s stress, if she’s lost interest, or what. I love her but I can’t keep going like this — feeling unwanted in my own relationship. She said she wants to wear thong bikinis on the beach without me with her friends go out and party even if I’m not there, but she won’t even have sex with me. Won’t talk to me dirty won’t touch me nothing and I don’t know what to do.