These apps…. I have crop tops on my profile pictures and I am an obvious twink. I have vers top listed on there, and I get lots of messages saying “you’re a top?” “You sure you’re a top?” “You have bottom written all over you.” “You ain’t a top.” Mind you, I never message anyone first nor am I interested in hooking up.
Why go out of your way to message a stranger that? I’m not even trying to fuck you, like?! The profiles that message me are all blanks too! Like, bro, even if I was only a bottom, we’re not going to fuck each other so why bother messaging me? I am a stranger to you too, what gives you the entitlement to dictate my preference? I don’t want to block just so I don’t give them the satisfaction of getting my attention.
I know that some people on the apps are insufferable, but my god, just want to vent because I’m literally just trying to mind my own business.