I'm in a 3 year relationship since 2023, so we met the first year then he got sick and we didn't meet for 2 years, he's depressed suicidal and anxious the whole time... he began to drink his meds in some months and he's feeling a bit lighter, he sent me his meds, x-rays, eeg test and his doctor prescription and what he wrote about him and he faints a lot... the thing is that, I'm in a constant state of waiting, in these two years he kept promising for us to meet then he cancels last minute, and it wasn't days ago where I confronted him and he said that he has been sick and he's unable to meet but he keeps promising that we will meet once he feels better, the relationship is long distance and it takes him hours to reach in here... he works and he faints at work too, should I wait more or would it be just a waste and why? Btw I love him so much
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I'm in a 3 year relationship since 2023, so we met the first year then he got sick and we didn't meet for 2 years, he's depressed suicidal and anxious the whole time... he began to drink his meds in some months and he's feeling a bit lighter, he sent me his meds, x-rays, eeg test and his doctor prescription and what he wrote about him and he faints a lot... the thing is that, I'm in a constant state of waiting, in these two years he kept promising for us to meet then he cancels last minute, and it wasn't days ago where I confronted him and he said that he has been sick and he's unable to meet but he keeps promising that we will meet once he feels better, the relationship is long distance and it takes him hours to reach in here... he works and he faints at work too, should I wait more or would it be just a waste and why? Btw I love him so much Edit : we met before in real life yes, only in the last two years we didn't (1 year of meeting, 2 years of no meeting after he got traumatized because of a family event)