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Please feel free to correct what term I used, as I’m not certain if this is judging or a screening.

But I have some standards I like to look for in a profile. Such as mentioning their beliefs, God etc in anyway, a few filter options etc.

But If I see a profile which showcases a certain lifestyle that I wouldn’t feel comfortable dating, such as multiple photos in very minimal clothing, multiple party/club pics, I don’t look down on it, but I immediately swipe left.

It’s not a lifestyle I want to be involved with, or a lifestyle that I want want to see in someone I’m dating to marry. But I’m not certain if this is judging someone or not, and worried if I’m doing something against the Gods word.

As a minimum I set the filter as ‘Christian’ on hinge, but quite often some people’s profiles who don’t have ‘Christian’ listed still seem to come through. Anyone had issue like this?

Hinge is the 2nd app I use after SALT (much better for finding Christians), but I’ve had some decent experiences in hinge.

What is the polite way to part ways from a women who mentioned she has kids? I do not want to ghost them or come off as mean. I love kids, but I want to start my own family with some childless like myself.