u/Born_Initiative_2701

I always cried around women.

Crying together reminiscing on good memories. It’s part of FEELING ALIVE. The “show no emotion” approach never worked for me. I actually enjoy being in love.

The worst nightmare is boredom, apathy, nothing going on. Like those couples struggling to pay bills and working all day being busy.

Sometimes you cry, sometimes you're melancholic, sometimes you're cold, sometimes you're JON JONES doing MMA on her, sometimes you're pussy and agreeable, sometimes you're evil, sometimes you're empathetic, sometimes you pretend you're suffering and you're broke, next day you're a millionaire balling, sometimes you're distracted cause you're in love with another chick, sometimes you’re absent for 1month… depends on the mood you know???

People make these things seem too deep

“gotta be stoicccc”

“THE MAN HAS TO BE STRONG AS A ROCK”

It’s not that deep. Can cry 2 minutes then go laugh with another bitch

Can post a gay dump on IG and torture someone 5 min after

There’s no rules, you make them G.

Fucking a woman well and being preoccupied with SHOWING HER YOU CAN DO IT FOR 2 HOURS STRAIGHT isn't a flex, because the only flex is lack of interest and humiliation, not gifts

Fucking well is exactly like offering gifts, it's an effort from your side, a reward…a form of simping

Can't even brag "yeah I FUCKED THAT GIRL FOR 2 HOURS". It's like saying "YEAH I GAVE THAT GIRL 10k"

Realistically you can only brag with funny stuff that’s also real not fabricated

"yeah I know Elizabeth, used to gang bang her with my friends....look here at this lil VIDEO"

"yeah I know Margaret she used to do X and Y for me... lemme play you this RECORDING, in case you don’t believe me”

“Yeah I know Stacy she used to pay my bills….look”

The next women in your life will only respect how well you disrespected other girls not how well you treated them since their goal is to be treated well by a guy WHO DOESN'T USUALLY DO THIS

Anyway…Don’t take this opinion seriously I’m just joking.😂😂

Being a "pick up artist" in the conventional sense is kind of shitty but having the courage to talk to people is a very useful skill.

Especially if the rest of the "funnel" is on point.

1. Be in the right places where there's lots of "talent" lurking around

2. Talk to the girls you find attractive and ask for their social media

3. They see you have good social media so they keep replying, don't ghost you

4. You have the money, friends, free time to actually INVITE THEM to cool places / fun stuff

5. You have a nice crib to fuck them.

IF the whole funnel is on point, the "pick up artist" element is helpful, because, as oppose to DM's and TINDER - when you see someone in person you can feel her energy / see how she actually looks - and you can be more certain if you LIKE HER OR NOT.

Nani anauzaa

How much time you work doesn't really matter - unless you're a taxi driver, barber, construction worker, random employee etc.

Outside of being a slave what matters is HOW GOOD YOUR IDEAS ARE.

As an entrepreneur you might "waste" hours relaxing then have a brilliant idea that makes money. Even the orders you give to others, depend on being inspired, having vision.

Sometimes you accomplish more if you focus on sports, sitting in the sun, hobbies, pussy - because you have better thoughts rather than FORCING YOURSELF to "work" non stop if you have brain fog.

AT THE SAME TIME

Everything requires discipline. From being in shape, to making money, to getting revenge, to having a great family. Literally anything, good or bad, requires discipline and consistency.

If you wanna raise a kid that's gonna end up in the NBA you need to be the type of father who insists that the kid takes training seriously, taking him to practice non stop, dedicating years towards this "project"

You wanna make others suffer, you can't rely on temporary bursts of anger, it might take months or years of patience to do it correctly. Think of how USA caught BIN LADEN in Abbottabad in 2011, it didn't happen instantly, it took time.

You wanna lose weight and have a 6 pack, might take months of hunger and tasteless food to finally look like some UFC fighter.

Etc.

Now the TRICK IS THIS - Disciplined people ALSO ENJOY THE PROCESS. They usually describe the process as being hard, because it sounds cool but they like it. Lavar Ball enjoyed raising his sons and orchestrating their ascent in the NBA - it wasn't a chore. SEAL Team Six members enjoyed plotting Bin Laden's death. Someone that's in shape likes "suffering" in the gym and kitchen. Someone making money low-key loves the hustle and effort, he's pretending he'd rather be in some vacation but in reality THAT'S HIS VACATION - making money - he likes simping on some frog and being on his laptop, that's his REAL HOBBY even if he disguises it as "GRINDING".

You can't be stopped if you enjoy the game as well as having the discipline to play it right.

"TRUST NO ONE"

Stupid advice. You have to take the following aspects into consideration:

1. You're a worm anyway. Even if you trust people with your darkest secrets, you don't really matter so even if they betray you, the effects are minimal. In reality, most "dark secrets" have limited long term damage in a vast, indifferent world. Vulnerability feels risky, but the world doesn't revolve around our exposures as much as we fear.

2. Being too cautious makes you susceptible to remaining a lone wolf. If you share sensitive information with others, they perceive you as someone real, more human, which makes them open up more and be friends with you, it makes them like you cause you're not some robot spitting rehearsed lies, trying to sound "clever". Excessive caution signals inauthenticity, reducing likability and reciprocity.

3. Unity through transgressions. If I trust you and we do retarded shit together it makes us bond, makes us more inseparable and tight, fostering "us vs. the world" solidarity. Imagine in school you and your friend were beating everyone up and terrorising the other kids - it made you close and the memories still exist VS you keeping your distance from people. If you don't trust others and keep a distance the relationship is too shallow to last for years.

4. Trust allows you to suffer. If someone's a snake at least you can suffer in the back of a Maybach listening to 21 SAVAGE:

"Gang vs. the world me and my dawg it was us

Then you went and wrote a statement, and that really fucked me up"

What's actually worse is not feeling anything. Imagine being in the office with a computer in your face all day long, bored as fuck. At least 21 Savage suffers over some snake. At least DRAKE suffers over some bitch. Imagine a life of complete boredom - that's the real suffering.

5. The primary reason you don't trust others is that they might tarnish your reputation if they betray you. You have this fear because you're afraid of embracing who you truly are. A MARRIED MAN cheating lowkey. A guy pretending he's virtuous but lowkey takes drugs.

Etc.

You gotta embrace who you are and open up FIRST about anything you do - this way you deprive others of the chance to expose you.

Think of Bill Clinton when he was caught fucking his secretary then caught doing orgies with EPSTEIN. Nobody would've expected this from BILL. He built this image of a good guy, a family guy, virtuous guy. He never came back from these scandals. Lost his AURA. Lost the support from the individuals who liked him.

Now imagine Tate. He had all these girls in his cases, all those "victims". Nobody gave a fuck, he made EVEN MORE MONEY afterwards, bought fucking yachts. The reason is that you would EXPECT Tate to cheat and have whores, he TALKED ABOUT IT FIRST. He exposed himself before giving this opportunity to others.

The lesson is that aligning public image close to reality reduces blackmail/exposure risk. Pre-emptively owning flaws robs others of the opportunity to weaponise them. Plus people punish hypocrisy more than consistent "flawed" behaviour.

Conclusion:

"TRUST NO ONE" is generally a bad advice.

NAMASTEEEEEEEE