u/BornMaintenance4891

Hi everyone! My wife literally just shipped out for the army this morning! We’re 23 and 24 (both women) and I am so scared for these next few months! She is doing the ARMS program first and then going to basic depending on when she is within requirements at ARMS. So she’s going to be gone awhile. I just graduated with my bachelors and have decided to live with my parents to save money and pay off debt until she is moved to her next stop, the DLI, and I am able to move with her.

I’m struggling to find a job within my degree and told myself I wouldn’t go back to serving. I know finding an entry level career job when I won’t be there for even a year is kind of silly but I’m so eager to get my foot in the door, I don’t want the gap in my resume. I’m just scared of everything. I have a big trip coming up where I’ll be gone for 2 weeks and I just know after the rush of that, it’s all going to hit me.

I’m afraid I’ll just come crashing down. We’ve been together for almost 5 years and haven’t gone more than 2 weeks apart. I know I’ll eventually get used to it and it’ll get better but if anyone has any advice for the awful beginning I’m begging!!!

In the shortest version there is, a group member deleted my part of a paper and replaced it with AI. I’m not sure what to do, I know the obvious answer of talking to him and putting my part back in but the paper is due tonight. He worked on it for the first time yesterday and I went into it today to check it and it’s all replaced (along with 2 of my other group members parts). It seemed suspicious because he sent a message that he was just now getting to it and then 30 minutes later had the whole paper done (10+ page psych literature review). I ran it through an AI checker and it’s basically the whole thing.

I’m graduating this semester and it’s literally my last class, as bad as it sounds, I’m leaning toward not saying anything and if the professor catches it, I have my original writing saved and messages for proof that I had no part.