Hi, this is my first time and i really need someone who doesn't know me or my parents to help me understand if im being a ahole here. Im 32M who recently went to a beakout with my ex-fionce, I have been living with them for the past 6 months and everything in my life have been very hard since it was not an easy breakout since everything happens in the same day and i have a child with her who i send money and groceries for my son every time i visit. I work and i spend half of my money for my son (not a complain) which i also contribute with my parents house as much as i can.
I have been looking for better jobs opportunities and a new place to rent since i know i need my own space but during the last few weeks, they have been asking me to rebuilt various parts of the house with my limitted or none experience on construction since im not attletic at all. Im from mexico and i live here which may be a big difference to take in consideration (english is not my first language, so, sorry for all my miss spelling in advance) every day, I work during the morning an 8 hour shift from monday to saturday to get home at 3/4pm just to get home, and get ready for construction work for my parents for at least 3 to 4 hours, sometimes i have to cover a 6 or even 4 hours shift on my work so that leave me working 'till 7pm at home on everything they want me to do which have been letting me pretty tired since i also try to look for a second job performing for local bands at local bars so i can make some extra money and do what i love which is rock/metal music.
The main problem that i see, is that i dont have any kind of compesation and sometimes i need to "donate" for the construction so they can keep making me help them with the remodelations at home (dad is always there helping me with the hard work but my dad is 53 y/o, has diabetes and get tired very easily)
So, the question is, if I complain for this, and ask for them to give me a break every now and then just to recover my energy and have some time for my own, would that make me a A-hole? I feel like that might be, but also, the more time it passes the harder it is for me to just smile and say "yes" to wherever they wanted me to.
(once, i had a extra day off from work, which i use to clean my PC from the inside, do some laundry and a few more stuff exclusively for myself. Which make both of my parents angry to the point they dont spoke to me for that day even though i pay for half the bills of this house and help with day-to-day expenses.)