Should I continue to reject the men if their planets do not strongly aspect my ASC?
Some of the men I liked the most were not enough attracted to me for rl, only casual.
In synastry, just as I quessed, noone of them aspected my ASC. Their Venus/Mars/Moon did not conjunct my ASC. And it says it is the most important factor in how much a man will be attracted to a woman. Especially his Venus in conjunction to woman's ASC says to be his IDEAL type.
Fun fact: One told me that I'm not quite his type, and his Venus squared my ASC!
One wasn't attracted as well, and yup.. his Venus made an opposition to my ASC.
I canceled a date with one man because he made no aspects to my ASC, even though he complimented my looks, but I wasn't convinced when I checked our synastry.
I know it might sound silly, but I do believe now that synastry aspects do matter after my negative experiences.
It ruined a bit of my confidence because I'm not unattractive at all, and if I knew about synastry earlier it would save me so much disappointment and onesided crashes.
Is it a smart move to check synastry with any new man before a date, especially aspects to our ASC so that we are assured to be his type at least ?