Should we break up?
I’m on a 4 yr relationship, I’m 32 and my son is 16 and my boyfriend is 36 (no kids) I’m a pretty independent woman, my parents left me a house and I have a decent job, my boyfriend is a good guy but he doesn’t have any dreams besides having peace, which i don’t judge but i would rather take risks and maximize the possibilities in life, I’m always thinking on how to get more money, I’ve got a masters degrees and he didn’t even finish college. He is a scared person and I’m the opposite, i really love the peace he brings but I’m seriously thinking I’m Gonna have a boring life with him because he is so scared about everything (he doesn’t even drive), he also hates conflict and we are talking about breaking up but as usual I’m the one that will have to decide.. i don’t know what to do, he is the only guy i have ever trusted but i don’t know if he will be able to hustle by my side. Being honest i don’t fear conflict or risks so from time to time I could get in trouble, nothing major, for example I’m not scared of debt and I bought a car because i love road trips… and now i gotta have a budget to make things work, something he would never do… get in debt because he dreams about road trips. Hopefully my point is getting acrosss, I’m not sure on what should i do, he says he is willing to meet me half way and be a little bit more open to opportunities but we have been together for a long time and he has done 0 things not even a course to make progress in life