How to not kill the vibe?
I (24 F) am lesbian and when my bestie shows me a picture of a dude describing how hot he is I feel uncomfortable. In my pov it’s like when I see her excited about something and I’m interested in it even for a little bit I’d love to give her the energy back. This way we are both happy otherwise I would let her explain how she feels and why she feels this way and I’d listen until the end, but when it comes to men. I find myself feeling cringed cuz usually her energy is super intimate like wanting to fuck him or smth so I really can’t say saaame giirl.
I can’t gush over a celebrity who I am not interested in. I gush over Mads Mikklsen and Hugh Dancy all day, so for me it’s specific male celebrity who I can go all crazy over. I can feel all certain ways just not the desire to be intimate or romantic like that.
When I get this uncomfortable the convo tends to be awkward and dead right after and I hate it to be like this too, so how to not kill the vibe?